“Resistance builds character.”
I heard a neuroscientist say this while discussing parenting. He explained that one of the worst things we can do for children is rob them of their confidence and self-esteem by doing everything for them. When we swoop in at every challenge, solving problems before they struggle, we don’t just help—we steal their confidence and keep it for ourselves.
That struck me. And I couldn’t help but wonder: what does this mean for our faith?
Our Lord calls us to trust Him completely, but He also invites us to participate in the work. Many of Jesus’ miracles—especially healings—reflect this truth. Yes, He performs the miracle, but it is often in response to the person’s faith and effort.
Think of the paralytic who had to be lowered through the roof. The blind beggar who cried out, refusing to be silenced. The woman who pushed through the crowd just to touch His cloak. Each of them faced resistance—physical, social, or spiritual. And yet, they pressed on.
Faith isn’t passive. It’s not sitting back and waiting for God to do everything. It’s moving toward Him, even when it’s hard.
So maybe resistance does build character. But more importantly, it builds faith.